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| The contrasts . . . showing up in words! |
Prepping to sit down and write
this blog post when the Less Hardly poster comes to mind. I never quite
understood what Spirit’s message was until it was time for me to—and then the
message is revealed.
I am being touched by the unknown in this pandemic. When
thoughts and mind seek refuge in the heart, the joining disempowers fear . . .
not dispels, as this emotion is a part of my human condition. I am once again
searching for the comfort in uncomfortable, that sacred space
within where I can find my equilibrium, my balance between two opposing
feelings until that time-of-ready where Spirit resumes my march forward.
Love greets the unity of heart and mind and I am spared the
frenetic-thoughts generated by fear. I carry this joining a step further and in
complete willingness, I align my heart with Source/Spirit/God/Love. In a now
wholehearted relationship, a direct connection with Spirit, I experience a
harmonizing in fear—a less hardly feeling of anxiety and worry as guidance
received from Spirit is more ever with me, releasing the reaction to fear
that once kept my mind captive. What I once considered a baser of emotions, I
discover emotions do not have a need to be categorized and these emotions are
hardly less important for the growth of my soul than Love is for its evolution.
It is much easier to return to this state of heart alignment knowing that I am
evermore within reach of the One that is always with me . . . and so continues
my journey to healing. A soul journey where today a play on words received in
2019 are now mirrored back to me and in reflection, carry a new meaning.
Words. A love of mine. A lover of words has its own special word—a logophile. Words
throughout my life (a'ha moment here) I've collected like little treasures.
They are my rock collection, my coin collection or like any other collectible
one finds interesting. Why do we collect things? Well for one, my word
collection makes me happy. I’m able to experience unexpected moments of joy
when I come across a word that engages a few of my five senses.
I have a collection of words of world places
simply because I like the way the sounds roll off my tongue when pronounced and
the way they hit my ear as if a musical note . . . Kuala Lumpur, Apalachicola,
Sebastopol. My favorite foreign word—one word used to describe a complex emotion—schaudenfreude.
I believe this word needs time for reflection as part of my spiritual journey
and deserves a #750 word contemplation as I parse through the feelings opposing
the norm elicited by this descriptive, and learning more about myself in the
process. Epicaricacy, its English counterpart . . . not so fond of!
Mispronunciation and misreading. There is a
good chance that new memories are in the making during these times. Family
togetherness, when we are truly in relationship with one another—listening,
loving. One of my favorites comes from a young Matty, misreading an outdoor
patio sign at a local restaurant we were lunching at. “The topatio” (toe.pa.tay.o),
he proudly announced is where he’d like to sit . . . to patio this way, read
the sign! To this day whenever the family sees outside seating, it continues to
be called the topatio. Spanakopita, or better know to our clan as spank-a-pita,
always brings a smile and a wonderful memory; a warmth to my heart of a special
time when more love was coming into our family. Or the love of listening to a
child recite the ABC's for their first time. Learning letters that will later
be constructed into words. Made for the heart words that go years without
correction as toddlers begin to speak their version of ad-adult language—
lellow, nemember, a'cation, anoculars.
Word play. I use words to create a visual, a
metaphor through and not over the hardchips I come across on my path. Yes, this
too came from Spirit. I was typing the word hardships, a typo turned into a
mini-moment of reflection and a flow of words came next to help define. They
are heart chips,
little nicks taken from the heart when met with obstacles, challenges, setbacks.
Nicks from the heart recognized by my grit, tenacity and perseverance. Nicks
leaving enough space for fear and doubt to enter and disrupt the virtues of
trust and belief. Little pieces waiting for clarity and understanding, a return
to the whole teaching me patience—biding time until my soul journey calls out
that the time is right, here and now. I
pick up a piece, a nick and embrace it. I thank it for its patient waiting. I
hold it and examine it and turn it over to see all sides and angles. I ask
“what will you be teaching me” and this week the answer is “the birth of
judgement”.
When I'm trying to personalize, get my arms
around, embrace—a concept, feelings, emotions—when I need a greater
understanding, I give them a tighter embrace. They, the unknown, spring from
small letters to capitalized letters when they’ve found a place in my heart and
reverence for their teachings.
The
soul journey, finding comfort
in the uncomfortable is a
much needed examination of the inner me, revealing more of Me. Talking about,
sharing, hearing, listening, taking words turned into stories and placing them
into the heart for safekeeping, these soul journeys of mine and others. There
exists a need to find the comfort
in the uncomfortable when speaking of this topic. It arrives clothed in
vulnerability. The dialogue may feel less than natural at the start, angst
filled until my Brave steps forward to take my hand—intimacy recognized by soul.
Hiding, compartmentalizing, running from the feelings, the conversations rob me
of the opportunity to perhaps gain
a shift in perception with the possibility leading to a change in perspective.
When I dig deeper, I get closer to answering the question “Who am I?”
Spiritual word play,
I hold great appreciation and a zeal as this is how Spirit/Soul my awareness
of Christ-consciousness allows me to tap into the pool of universal Wisdom. What does this all mean? More healing, more
soul remembering. The soul journey is a journey of re-memory-ing. I am born
with an open-ended invitation to connect with the Great Mystery and in my rsvp
of yes, I am choosing presence in alignment, union, and relationship. The
wisdom held in the soul, in union with all souls makes itself known to my
consciousness. I will meet my two selves; myself and mySelf on this journey. I
will learn about myself, soul at birth—my humanspirit; and my soul in alignment—my
Spirithuman. A simple reversal of words and a complete reversal of how I live
my life forward.
My
heart chips will be reunited through this process and glued together by Love.
It all comes back to Love. I learned about the role of contact tracing during this
pandemic; finding each covid-19 patient and their interactions since infection.
My journey will undertake a bit of spiritual tracing, how everything can be
traced back to Love and held together by Love.
Words are my
friends and at other times in my life, when I’ve come face to face with uncomfortable
topics, a topic such as Grief—where people not knowing how to begin their search
in finding the comfort in the uncomfortable feel a new heart chip.
The lack of words hurt, the non-acknowledgement
of my grief, my loss has left me with a feeling of not
belonging, set apart from the rest, isolated in mourning.
There are many unknowns that
will emerge from the pandemic we are living through. I can only speak to my
experience, and grief and mourning fall into the
category of knowns. What part can I play as I observe the stay-at-home order
with self-love for my weakened immune system and love for others with health
conditions? I can use my words and share what is coming from my heart today.
Perhaps shed light on the empathy and compassion needed to help one heal from
the loss and tragedy that occurs daily. I witness kindness and compassion
exhibited from small acts, to collective acts to great acts of collaboration. I
also observe the difficulty of acceptance and believability in others who will
unfortunately gain an understanding of trauma, grief, and loss when it seeks
them out personally.
My heart breaks
for the tragedy of this all. I have found my comfort
in the uncomfortable in speaking
about the feelings and emotions associated with trauma, loss and death. My
heart aches for the segment of the population entering their journey into grief
and mourning. Our death-averse culture places enormous uncomfortable-ness atop acts
of active grieving and mourning as well as a lack of comfort when it finds
itself in daily conversation. How do we choose which 10 family members can
attend a viewing of a spouse, parent, child or sibling? How does having to put
off services for months allow an organic start to the healing process? What
happens when pain is un-acknowledged? How do we offer emotional support when
one does not know what to say or where to begin?
We have tests
to determine whether the virus is active, inactive or asymptomatic in
individuals. Is there a test for our hearts? Our souls hold a limitless
capacity for Love. What about a test measuring the heart for positive, negative
or asymptomatic symptoms complete with guidelines and a level of supportive care
allowing for an expansion of empathy—allowing it to flow into compassion, an
emotion requiring action? Giving and receiving—two halves of a whole. The test
results are invisible yet measurable by reaction to emotion. They show
positive, negative or asymptomatic according to the feelings that
emanate from the heart. The test could be as simple as becoming aware of your
heart when one learns of, hears or reads about another’s grief and mourning. The
medicine, read an article daily, take time to listen to someone’s story. Let’s
engage our hearts and participate in the conversation, helping in the healing
process of a fellow soul, one soul at a time.
I
am beginning to see the Love that sits beneath judgement with or through my
heart eyes. The acceptance that I Am humanspirit with moments of Spirithuman as
my process of transformation continues. As I peel the onion to get to the core
of myself, to feel every part of every emotion and observe my reactions until
there are none; I will be a part of this conversation. Herein lies the lesson .
. . the need to feel in order to see from the heart. Thoughts delivered
to the heart, joined in seeking answers, buttressing the heart of humanity,
finding unity. Thank you Spirit for this lesson orchestrated through my passion
for word play.
“Sometimes,
reaching out and taking someone's hand is the beginning of a journey.
At other times, it is allowing another to take
yours.”
Vera Nazarian, The Perpetual Calendar of Inspiration
